This question would definitely fetch varying answers anytime it’s asked—particular when you throw it to men and women. While some men think a good s*x is that which can go on and on forever, the women seem to say 5 minutes is superb.
A popular US talk show-The REAL, where things are kept real and the conversation stays in the of box honesty puts the average desirable s*x time for women between 5-7 minutes.
When the host of the show-Jeannie Mai asked her panel of ladies this week how long they prefer s*x to last—the answers were pretty interesting but they all displaced the idea that, the longer the s*x, the better it is…
Adrienne Bailon who answered the question first said, for her, 20-30 minutes is great.
She said; “I think more people would have [s*x] more frequently if they didn’t think… it would be a 3 hour marathon. I hear a lot of women say ‘I don’t want to have as much of it because I’m tired!
I feel like on weekdays and on work days, a good 20-30 minutes is right on point. That is including kissing and foreplay. A good 20 or 30 minute as a night cap or when you wake up in the morning!”
Of course she added that this time includes foreplay and kissing which brings her answer within the 5-7 minutes range for the actual intercourse. The other women on the panel fell within the same time frame, confirming existing studies which say satisfactory s*x falls within 3-7 minutes.
Per Penn State Erie researchers-Eric Corty and Jenay Guardiani, s*x is “Too Short” when it lasts 1-2 minutes, “Adequate” s*x is 3 to 7 minutes, “Desirable” s*x lasts for 7-13 minutes and “Too long” s*x is anywhere between 13 to 30 minutes.
The research which found the above conducted a survey of 50 full members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research, which include psychologists, physicians, social workers, marriage/family therapists and nurses who had collectively seen thousands of patients over several decades.
READ ALSO: Start A Blog for Less than 15 GHS A Month & Make As Much As Over 5000 GHS A Month Easily
I've helped several people like you START their own blogs--and they are making money from them. It's not that difficult and I am here to help you so CLICK HERE
The researchers stated in their paper that, “unfortunately, today’s popular culture has reinforced stereotypes about s*xual activity. Many men and women seem to believe the fantasy model of large penises, rock-hard erections and all-night-long intercourse.”
The video conversation below together with published researches sort of say; going for too long is not what women really want—but on individual level, this could be totally different.
So we ask; how long should s*x last for?